Vaginal dryness and lubrication

Vaginal dryness and lubrication

Vaginal lubrication is a lubricating  fluid that is naturally produced in a woman’s vagina. Vaginal lubrication or moistness is always present, but production increases significantly during sexual arousal in anticipation of sexual intercourse. Vaginal dryness is the condition in which this lubrication is insufficient, and sometimes artificial lubricants are used to augment it. Without sufficient lubrication, sexual intercourse can be painful to the woman. The vagina has no glands, and therefore must rely on other methods of lubrication. Plasma seepage from vaginal walls due to vascular engorgement is considered to be the chief lubrication source, and the Bartholin’s glands, located slightly below and to the left and right of the introitus (opening of the vagina), also secrete mucus  to augment vaginal-wall secretions.

Some women do not stay lubricated for long periods during rigorous intercourse. This does not mean she is not enjoying sex. It is caused by a variety of factors. Vaginal dryness may also result from insufficient excitement and stimulation or from hormonal changes, pregnancy or breast-feeding. Irritation from contraceptive creams and foams can also cause dryness, fear and anxiety about sexual intimacy.

Why are you not “wet”?

Perhaps you are under stress. It also happens as we age and it happens periodically throughout life as our hormones rise and fall.

Insufficient lubrication or vaginal dryness in women can cause dyspareunia, which is a type of sexual pain disorder . Vaginal dryness may also result from insufficient excitement and stimulation or from hormonal changes caused by menopause, pregnancy, or breast-feeding. Irritation from contraceptive creams and foams can also cause dryness, as can fear and anxiety about sexual intimacy.

Certain medications, including some over-the-counter antihistamines or diseases such as diabetes, will inhibit lubrication. Medicines with anticholinergic  or sympathomimetic effects will dry out the mucosal or “wet” tissues of the vagina. Such medicines include many common drugs for allergenic, cardiovascular, psychiatric, and other medical conditions. Oral contraceptives may also increase or decrease vaginal lubrication.

Older women produce less vaginal lubrication and reduced estrogen levels may be associated with increased vaginal dryness

What can you do?

*Try having a shower before intercourse. You will feel cleaner, fresher more confident to be adventurous. Note however when washing your nether regions before sex, use cold water as hot water can dry you out.

* Maybe you need a change! Slow down. Do more nonsexual touching, kissing and fondling to enable you to become more fully aroused. What fantasies might you want to try? How about a new toy or position? Maybe have a night of just oral play for both of you for a change. Also, have your partner use his fingers inside you . Some women can even ejaculate during intense orgasms! Then proceed to intercourse! You should be really wet by then.

* How about your diet?

It is hot outside and our diet reflects how our body can respond. Are you eating a healthier diet with lots of fruits and veggies, or are you a meat and starch person? Lower the amount of high cholesterol foods, increase fruits and veggies and drink more water. The cleaner, healthier diet keeps all of your parts moving and your sex life benefits too! Take vitamins, especially zinc which helps with lubrication.

* How often are you having sex? Having sex regularly naturally keeps the juices flowing so keep trying to stay connected and let your body relax and enjoy the wonderful sensations!

*Female arousal usually takes more time than male arousal, so foreplay is crucial. Your brain needs to feel sexy so that your body can feel sexy.

* Try using a water-based lubricant for now. It will help to keep you lubricated and make penetration more comfortable. Different lubes have stimulants and flavorings

*Try something new and different. Sex should never be the same thing every time so have some fun.

*  The use of an artificial lubricant can make sexual intercourse less painful for a woman, but does not address the underlying cause of the vaginal dryness itself

* Restrict the use of soaps and perfumes, the vagina has the ability to self clean so avoid douching or sprays.

* Perform kegel exercises; kegels are pelvic floor exercises that help retain elasticity of  the vagina and promote blood circulation to your vaginal area and enhance lubrication.



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  1. Vaginal dryness · February 28, 2014

    Thoroughly I really enjoy your post especially what can you do for vaginal dryness, because most of the women don’t understand that which way they cure this problem, thanks for sharing.

  2. Vaginal dryness · March 21, 2014

    Vaginal lubrication keeps important role in women life but today most of the women facing vaginal dryness problem and they do lots of things to cure of it.I think your post gives lots of information on how to cure and avoid it.

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